Our Prison Run

We have completed the three scheduled evaluation performances in the Arizona Department of Corrections prisons and are optimistic about the reception and effectiveness of the program.

We will be working with the Staff to determine their evaluation of the program and how to try and move forward with a full blown program for the adult population.

We are making progress in determining what the guidelines need to be for presenting “I Have This Friend”, to the teen population in the Juvenile the system. So far we are encouraged by the response and hope to have this program moving forward to present this musical across the state. 

We love our Board Members and their support and wanted to share Doreen Nicholas take on the presentation of Control.Assault.Delete to Lewis Prison in Buckeye, AZ last week.   

 "On Thursday evening, July 11th, 2013 I had the honor of accompanying Linda and John King to the Lewis State Correctional facility as they performed "Control.Assault.Delete" to 80 male inmates. It was a great ride out and back and we got to know each other better through our sharing and conversations. Though  I had seen "Control, Assault, Delete" before, I was moved yet again. The depth of their courage and resilience to transform a personal tragedy into a teaching and awareness tool takes my breath away. The few but effective props made it all the more impactful.  After assisting a bit with the set-up I was in an observer/supporter role so had time to watch the men file in and take their seats before the performance. I looked in their faces, I watched their body language. I noticed curiosity in some, others were resentful as they felt they had to be there, some were anticipating entertainment, and some did not know what to expect. As John and Linda began the performance there was some fidgeting and grumbling among the inmates. About 10 minutes into the performance there was complete silence except for John and Linda. The men and staff were leaning in, paying attention and totally engaged. The applause was sincere and the question and answer period was hopeful. Many expressed concern for their sons and daughters. Some asked how they could talk to their kids about abuse, others related to the performance as to how they grew up and what they experienced in their homes. All were grateful for the experience as was I.  When we have an opportunity to touch people in a compassionate and respectful way, give them new information, show them that tragedies can be survived, we plant seeds of hope. John and Linda did that in a big way by sharing themselves. I .am honored to be a part of Fix the Hurt.  Doreen

Thank you, Doreen.

 

A Good Day at Prison

The morning was different and we anticipated the long awaited event.  As we picked up Board Member  Leah Heathcoat, and  drove the one hour plus to our destination our minds were busy anticipating the things we hoped to accomplish. As we went through the requisite inspection of our bags, fussed with setting off alarms because we forgot to take off a belt or something else, our anticipation increased. Finally, we walked through the reinforced door and heard it slam behind us.

The realization that we were, in fact, inside the Cook Unit at the Arizona State Prison, located in Florence, Arizona, became reality. You might think this would cause an anxiety attack, but it didn’t. The attitude of the approximately 80 men dressed in orange prison clothing was cordial and comfortable.

As we started setting up the props and sound system, I turned to see Linda out shaking hands with the inmates and learning their names. We were there to present the Fix the Hurt play, Control.Assault.Delete.  Deputy Warden Freeland was helpful and made us welcome. While we had performed for the female inmates at Perryville, we had not performed for male inmates and didn’t know what to expect. http://www.azcorrections.gov/prisons/Jeff_Eyman.aspx

What a delightful experience we had. At the close of the performance, the applause was over whelming. The question and answer session went for about forty five minutes and the comments were sincere and contained an unexpected amount of insight.   We distributed surveys/evaluations and spent the return trip reading their remarks.

A few select comments follow:

Responses  to the questions-

Q- Was the program beneficial to you? Why?

R -“The material is an insight to a very real situation that is all too frequent and common. The message is powerful and should be heard by as many people as possible.”

R- “It is important regardless of the choices we have made, to be able to identify the signs of destructive behavior."

Q- Do you have family members and friends that should see this program?

R- “Everyone should see this. If more people were educated on this issue perhaps we could prevent more bad outcomes.”

Responses under comments

R- “You have faced this with unbelievable courage. Perhaps we could raise funds for your cause.”

R- “Your performance was phenomenal. The depth and meaning was inviting and captivating.”

R.- "The play had a powerful impact on me and it was well done. You told the story so powerful that it put me completely in the story and I was drawn into each scene watching things as it unfold.  God has chosen you to tell about this evil, this is a powerful ministry prison DOC inmates need to see this play."

R- "I believe every inmate in every yard should see this play."

The comments go on and on with the same spirit. How grateful we are each time we present our message to teach concepts that will prevent some other person from dropping or being pulled into the pitfall.

Needless to say we walked out on air and hardly noticed the requisite inspection upon leaving the facility. We await our next opportunity to make another presentation to the female inmates at Perryville on July 10^th.  A huge "THANK YOU" to Sen. Rich Crandall, Will Barnow from ADC and Mar Kuhlman, for helping to expedite this process.  

John and Linda

From Allison's Notes

After meeting with Linda and Julie this past week, thoughts were racing through my head on so many different points; I couldn’t even connect the dots. One of the things I’ve learned to be a valuable tool in sorting those points out is stream of consciousness writing. Sure it’s probably just as hard to follow down on paper as it is in my head, but at least this way, I can rely on others to help sort through them.  So, I apologize in advance for any and all non-sequester thought processes and abrupt changes in direction. It is my hope that you will garner something from what I have to offer, even if I cannot define what that something is!

It is not easy to find inspiration. In times where we hear of darkness, frivolousness, and greed, finding something greater to work for takes effort. I feel like we too often look for heroes to outsmart and conquer our ills. But we will only be disappointed. Looking to people in positions of power, often the people we put into those positions in the first place, ultimately leads to some form of disappointment. I have become, in many ways, disenchanted with the system, overcome with pessimism.

Over time, I have learned to look elsewhere for my inspiration, my heroes, and search out hope. It’s counter intuitive, even risky, but more often than not, I find what I am looking for not in heroes in the traditional sense, but in the victims of that omnipresent darkness. Those hard-to-hear stories of people who lost to- or were lost within that darkness, are what motivate me. In my case, it is especially the victims of domestic violence, those who have found the very difficult path to survivor-ship status, who play the role of heroes. And in the instances where survivor-ship is never attained, it is those who fight for the victims that are my heroes. While I hope I never have to fight to become of the first category, it is the second in which I am determined to join—who doesn’t want to play superhero?

As with superheroes, actions, more often than not, speak louder than words. How many times was that told to me as a child?! It seemed constant. Words can be beautiful things, powerful things, but still, pictures of action elicit an entirely different response.

We, as a society, like to hear of the little person who defeated the mighty giant. That action is seen as the ultimate battle. Still, too often we do nothing to help the little person in their pursuit. Today we see more people fall at the hands of a giant than who conquer it. But imagine a story in which many people stand up to the giant. Some may still fall, but as more stand to take their places, what cannot be achieved? Isn’t that the whole idea behind a participatory democracy? So who don’t are actions coincide with our words, how have the roles been reversed, allowing words to become more powerful insomuch as they stand alone?

Fix the Hurt is a platform for joining all the little persons defending themselves against the giant of domestic violence. Awareness/conscious rising is the first step in leveling the playing field against domestic violence. We can all be superheroes. I know I would, at the very least, aspire to become one.